Jim Melnyk: “Turning Points and the Road Less Traveled”
We all experience
turning points in our lives – moments of decision that change the course of our
destinies. Poet Robert Frost wrote:
“Two roads diverged
in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could
not travel both
And be one traveler,
long I stood
And looked down one
as far as I could
To where it bent in
the undergrowth;
Then took the other,
as just as fair,
And having perhaps
the better claim,
Because it was
grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that
the passing there
Had worn them really
about the same,
And both that
morning equally lay
In leaves not step
had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first
for another day!”
This Sunday and the
next are turning points in Mark’s gospel for both Jesus and his disciples –
roads taken when other paths lay wanting.
In today’s lesson, Jesus comes face-to-face with a decision about his
ministry – about whom it is he is called to serve. Next week Jesus will ask his disciples what
the crowds are saying about him, and will then ask them point blank – Who do
you say that I am? Jesus will turn his
face toward Jerusalem and the cross, and the disciples will then face a turning
point of their own. They will have to come
to grips with what they have come to believe about Jesus, and decide whether or
not to follow him to Jerusalem.
Looking at this
morning’s lesson we realize that up to this point in Mark’s gospel Jesus has
focused his ministry within Israel – predominantly around Galilee – and toward
his Jewish sisters and brothers. Taking
a break from the crowds, Jesus and his disciples head to the nearby region of
Tyre – gentile territory. Perhaps they
figure the crowds won’t follow them out of the comfort zone of their own faith
communities.
When the gentile
woman in today’s story – a woman whose daughter is possessed of an unclean
spirit – when the gentile woman first approaches Jesus for help he comes to a
turning point in his life that will change the course of history. In Mark’s story Jesus simply points out to
her that the children should be fed first, rather than taking their food and
throwing it to the dogs. You may recall
from other times we’ve heard about this story that Jesus was being down-right
insulting here. He’s not calling the
gentiles cute little puppies – but dogs – implying something less than human –
not worth his attention. As theologian Sharon Ringe puts it, Jesus “was
caught with his compassion down,” and we find “Mark’s portrayal of Jesus” in
this instance is neither “a typical or comfortable one” (Sojourners Online, Preaching the Word, 9/6/2015).
Later, in Matthew’s
version of the story, Jesus will tell the woman more directly, “I was sent only
to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.”
Jesus comes to a turning point.
Is the Good News of God for all people or not? Can I actually turn my back on this woman and
her daughter simply because they are not of the house of Israel? To her credit, the woman stands fiercely
before Jesus on behalf of her daughter – and to Jesus’ credit, he relents at
the sign of her faith, and heals the little girl. In essence, this unnamed Syrophoenician woman
sets a table before Jesus “to which all are invited” (ibid), and Jesus affirms her faith.
God’s grace does extend beyond the house of Israel. God’s grace is boundless. Jesus is called to serve not just Israel, but
the whole world. And this moment becomes
a turning point in Mark’s gospel – a turning point in Jesus’ life and ministry
– an exclamation point of God’s love for a whole world. And by this woman’s act, as the late lay
theologian Verna Dozier commented, “The people of God have been enlarged” (ibid).
Now, as we heard a
few minutes ago, we have two stories about Jesus today. On the way home from the region of Tyre Jesus
and his disciples stop in the region of the Decapolis – still in gentile
territory. There they come upon a deaf
man who also had difficulty speaking. By
now Jesus’ reputation has spread, and the locals ask Jesus to heal their friend. I cannot help but imagine the exchange with
the Syrophoenician woman ringing in Jesus ears as he touches the man’s ears and
tongue, and looking to heaven prays, “’Ephphatha,’ that is, ‘Be opened!’”
Perhaps Jesus was
directing this prayer not only at the man who stood before him, but perhaps at
himself and his disciples as well. “I
get it, Father,” he seems to be saying, “I am sent for all your people, and to
all your people I must be open.” And we
find ourselves grafted into the household of God perhaps due in part to the two
gentiles who come into contact with Jesus in today’s lesson and help him see
beyond race, clan, and creed.
There are turning
points in our lives as well – though I am convinced we’re not always open to
seeing them play out in our lives. I
suspect there are times when our surety is challenged by the Good News of God
in Christ – times when we feel compelled to circle the wagons and claim a wall
of exclusivity around us – us being the good guys, of course – and those
turning points pass us by.
The Episcopal Church has been asked
by our sisters and brothers in the African Methodist Episcopal Church this
Sunday to make visible our solidarity with them in desiring to put an end to
racism in our nation and in the world.
And so our Presiding Bishop, The Most Rev. Katharine Jefferts Schori has
asked churches across the nation to acknowledge today as “Confession,
Repentance, and Commitment to End Racism Sunday.” AME Bishop Reginald Jackson writes, “Racism
will not end with the passage of legislation alone; it will also require a
change of heart and thinking. This is an effort which the faith community must
lead, and be the conscience of the nation...” (quoted in Letter to the
Episcopal Church, 9/1/15). Ephphatha! Be opened!
We might wonder if
so many recent senseless deaths – whether we’re talking about the civilians
gunned down in Charleston, SC, or the National Guard soldiers in Chattanooga,
TN – police officers in Houston and Chicago, or the civilians in places like
Ferguson and Arlington – might somehow become a turning point in how we treat
one another in our nation. We might look
at how refugees are being treated today in places like Germany and Hungary – or
even in the US – and see that as a turning point in how we treat one another
around the globe – treating everyone as people created in God’s image. I hope so. I hope to God, so.
“The writer of the Book of James
makes it very clear that to show partiality of one segment of human beings over
another is sinful. In today’s reading the example compares the treatment of the
rich to the poor. But, the same type of example can apply to conduct between
people of differing races and different nationalities.
Another example the writer of James
uses is not addressing the needs of a brother or sister who is hungry. Using
words to wish a hungry person peace is not sufficient. The hunger itself must
be addressed. The reading ends with what may be the most well-known sentence
from the Book of James: ‘So faith by itself, if it has no works, is dead’” (Lorraine
Ljunggren).
We need to stand
together as a community, as a nation, as a world – we need to hold hands with
one another – we need to stand vigil with each other – we need to pray together
as the family of God. We need to create
turning points in our lives and in the lives of our communities – in the life
of this world – that will enable us to respect one another’s dignity and honor
one another as human beings created in the image and likeness of God.
Honoring one another
in that manner will enable us to come to the holy table together despite our
differences of opinion and in celebration of our diversity as a people; and
this is vital today because I see our world becoming more and more
fractured. I see our world selling life
on the cheap. I see our world so into
our own lives that we fail to see Christ in the eyes of our neighbors – in the
eyes of the stranger – and sometimes even in the lives of our families and
closest friends. And sometimes, like the
author of James reminded us last week, sometimes we look in the mirror to see
our own selves, but walking away we forget what we look like – we fail to see
and remember the image of God looking back at us through the glass.
Do we as a community
of faith say to ourselves, “Well, that’s happening in Houston or Chicago –
that’s happening in Ferguson or Arlington – or Germany and Hungary – not in
Smithfield.”? Or do we say to ourselves,
“As people of faith how can we work toward a more just society?”
Unlike the two roads
in Robert Frost’s poem, the other road isn’t always just as fair – even if it
seems so at first glance – though it may seem easier or more enticing or alluring. Do our personal turning points direct us
toward the comfort and safety of hearth and home, or do we see our personal
turning points directing us toward the challenges and risks of Jerusalem?
“Two roads diverged
in a wood, and I –
I took the one less
traveled by,
And that has made
all the difference.”
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