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Sunday, February 24, 2019


Epiphany 7C: Gen. 45:3-11, 15; Luke 6:27-38 St. Paul’s, 2/24/2019
Jim Melnyk: “The Family Business”


“Who is closer to God,” the seeker asked, “the saint or the sinner?” “Why the sinner, of course,” the elder said. “But how can that be?” the seeker asked. “Because,” the elder said, “every time a person sins they break the cord that binds them to God. But every time God forgives them, the cord is knotted again. And so, thanks to the mercy of God, the cord gets shorter and the sinner closer to God.”[1]

Joan Chittister, who gives us this story of God’s mercy, tells us that “This Society is locked in mortal combat between mercy and justice. On which side must we err,” she asks, “if err we must? Which side do we want for ourselves when we cut corners, bend the rules, break the codes, [and] succumb to needs not being met in other places and ways?”[2] Most of us, I suspect, would like to be treated mercifully – especially when we mess up – especially when we deserve judgment – especially, I’m thinking, when the response of justice would be to call us down on the carpet. Offering mercy to someone else – offering mercy to someone who has wronged us – well, that’s a tougher sell for most people.

Jesus certainly points us time and again to the bond that unites us to God – and how when we’ve broken that bond God’s forgiveness knots that bond back together. But Jesus also speaks to us about the bond we share with one another as children of God. Jesus knows so well that we often find those bonds that tie us together torn asunder. He speaks to us about ways of seeking one another’s forgiveness and finding ways of retying those broken bonds.

Jesus tells us, “…love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you…. Do to others as you would have them do to you…. Your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind to the ungrateful and the wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful….”[3]

Episcopal priest and spiritual director Martin Smith sees our gospel lesson’s call to be merciful and forgiving as a way of following in the footsteps of Jesus – carrying out a ministry of reconciliation. He writes, “In today’s gospel passage we are urged to be children of God by working, so to speak, in the family business.” Smith explains, “In the society in which Jesus lived, most production was domestic, in family businesses where even little children were hard at work. It is still this way with many societies today…. And so it would have been for Jesus, the little apprentice, alongside his sisters and brothers in Joseph’s construction business.”[4]

But then we come to the relationship Jesus shares with God, whom Luke tells us is the heavenly father of Jesus. Smith builds upon his family business metaphor: “The Holy One’s family business is reconciliation, risky solidarity, and love that is unconditional and generous—a business that is indifferent to profit or even breaking even. What a strange business model! But it is God’s—and if we are to be part of the company…‘God and Family: Distributors of Unconditional Love,’ then we must get down to business, and demonstrate our resemblance to the Creator.”[5]

We’re challenged to ask ourselves, “What exactly does my family business look like?” Over the past five weeks we’ve been taking a look at what it would mean for our world to turn away from the false god of the Dominion Mandate in order to embrace a model of tikkun olam – what is for me, another way of describing the subversive nature of the kingdom of heaven – where any dominion practiced is done so in the grace and mercy of God. Domination and tikkun olam are two world views that do not mix.

The Dominion Mandate, at its worst interpretation from the early verses of Genesis, demands its own form of justice on behalf of humankind; with mercy reserved only for those at the top of the creation food chain. And all too often the Dominion Mandate expounds a male-dominated theology, and a male-dominated cry for justice, believing the needs and desires of certain groups to be vastly more important than either other people or the environment around us. Proponents see themselves as the pinnacle of God’s creation, and therefore the created world and any lesser beings must bow to their needs – to their desires – to their hopes and dreams.

We see the brokenness of the Dominion Mandate whenever we choose a healthy bottom-line over care for our planet – whenever we let suspicion and fear overrule our love for our neighbor – whenever we turn away the sojourner among us in an attempt to insulate us from those whom we believe are different from us – whenever we find ourselves denying others the very mercy we long for ourselves when our lives take a hard turn.

            Both Chittister and Jesus, however, speak to us about a different sort of mandate – a divine mandate. Franciscan priest Joe Nangle sees that mandate acted out in our faith stories more than one thousand years before the birth of Christ: “God's Word today confronts us with [a] mysterious, demanding, and, yes, elusive divine mandate,” writes Nangle. It is the “divine mandate” of forgiveness. Nangle points us toward Joseph, whom we read about this morning. Joseph, the one of “multicolored coat” fame. Joseph, who “receives with open arms the very brothers who had plotted his death and sold him into slavery.”[6]

            Joseph has every right to demand justice from his brothers who had betrayed him – and because of that they stand before Joseph in Egypt fearful of their lives. They expect justice, as only betrayers might understand, and instead Joseph bursts into tears at the sight of them. He is different from his brothers. “Joseph no sooner reminds his brothers of their great sin (v. 4) than he renounces retribution…. The last word [for Joseph and for us] is a word of life, not death.”[7] Later in the story Joseph will say to his brothers, “Have no fear! Am I a substitute for God? Besides, although you intended me harm, God intended it for good, so as to bring about…the survival of many people.”[8] In other words, Joseph is merciful as God is merciful – something a Torah Observant Jesus will call us to centuries later.

            Had the phrase been around in the time of Joseph and his brothers we might have said Joseph’s response to his brothers was an act of tikkun olam – an act of repairing their broken and frightful world. Not only are the brothers forgiven for their treatment of Joseph, but the whole of Israel – a small family clan at this point – the whole of Israel is saved from starvation. This is tikkun olam – this is repairing the breach – repairing the world – and it is God’s dream for not only each of us, but for the whole of creation.

            Isn’t that what Jesus is saying to us in today’s reading from Luke? When faced with the actions of others, do we end up believing ourselves to be substitutes for God, bringing some kind of divine retribution, or do we find ourselves imitating the divine compassion of God –

embracing what Nangle calls a divine mandate of forgiveness? Isn’t that precisely what Jesus is talking about when he teaches, “Do to others as you would have them do to you,” and in conjunction with that wisdom, “Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.”?[9]
            The elder in our opening story tells the seeker, “Every time a person sins they break the cord that binds them to God. But every time God forgives them, the cord is knotted again. And so, thanks to the mercy of God, the cord gets shorter and the sinner closer to God.”[10] If we, when we feel broken and lost, can seek out God and have the cord that binds us together knotted again, could we really ask anything less for others? For that reason – recalling the hope of God that the whole of creation find peace – perhaps we can now imagine ourselves tying knots – strengthening the bonds we share with one another as children of God.




[1] Joan Chittister. 40 Stories to Stir the Soul. (Erie, PA, Benetivision, 2010) 52


[2] Ibid


[3] Luke 6:27-28a, 31, 35-36

[4] Martin Smith, (Sojourners Online, Preaching the Word, 2/24/2019) https://sojo.net/preaching-the-word/family-business?parent=227317. Accessed on January 6, 2019


[5] ibid

[6] Joe Nangle, “An Elusive Mandate,” https://sojo.net/preaching-the-word/elusive-mandate?parent=227317. Accessed January 9, 2019

[7] Gen. 45:4-8 n


[8] Gen. 50:19-20


[9] Lk. 6:31, 36



[10] Chittister

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