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Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Two Temptations of Lent






Ash Wednesday; Isa. 58:1-12; Matt. 6:1-6, 16-21; St. Paul’s Smithfield, NC 2/10/2016
Jim Melnyk: “Two Temptations of Lent”

   Well here we are, at the start of Lent.  Again.  Too often, perhaps because of the language of the Ash Wednesday Liturgy – language like that found in our Collect of the Day, or perhaps a few of the heart-rending verses of Psalm 51 which we repeat each year, we get caught in the brokenness which the liturgy focuses upon and have trouble seeing the hope the season of Lent has to offer.  In that light, I’ve been thinking about two temptations that we each may face as we begin this season of introspection, contemplation, repentance, and reconciliation.

On the one hand, we may be tempted to respond with the thought: yadda, yadda, yadda, this again – talking and praying about our wretchedness, our sinfulness, our need for repentance.  We might be tempted to approach the words of the liturgy thinking, “Well, this is certainly not addressed to me.  I’m a good person.  I’m not wretched! It really must be about all those other folks – all those really evil people in the world – or at least that guy down the street from me who screams at his kids and kicks his dog all the time.  I’ll just tune out the words or spend my time thinking about the folks those words are really about – anybody except for me. 

Yet who among us has never sinned – never missed the mark?  Who among us has never messed up badly enough to damage a relationship we care about deeply?  Who among us has gone since last Lent – or even last Sunday – without something in our lives we wish we had or hadn’t done, or said, or thought?  Ash Wednesday reminds us that we do have a tendency to mess things up in our lives – and sometimes even in the lives of others; things for which we need to experience the forgiveness of others – forgive ourselves – and most certainly, experience the forgiveness of God.  Sin doesn’t necessarily make us evil – or wretched – or even bad people – (though admittedly some sinners may be all of those things rolled up into one messy ball).  Sin means we’re simply human – fallible – given the freedom by God to choose selfishly in our lives or to choose rightly – perhaps choosing selfishly more than we care to admit.

On the other hand, we may be tempted to think to ourselves, “Oh, how terrible I am.  I am not worthy of anyone’s love, let alone God’s love.  I am a miserable wretch.  Everything I touch turns to dust.  Just like the Psalmist says – and we will repeat in unison shortly – “I have been wicked from my birth, a sinner from my mother’s womb.”  How many of us have heard in our lives – or said to our children or our spouse or partner, “Can’t you ever get it right?” or, “Why do you always ruin everything?”  How many of us have ever said to a parent, “You’re always on my back!” or, “Why can’t you ever give me a break?”  How many of us have ever said to ourselves in the darkest hour of the soul, “I wish I had never been born!” or, “I can’t ever do anything right.”  

Perhaps when we read Psalm 51 the words in the early verses drive those thoughts home for us – either thoughts about ourselves, or thoughts about those other folks – the ones who mess up all the time.

There has to be a middle way – some way that leads us between thinking it’s always some other person – some other group – that needs to repent – that needs to change direction in their lives, or our own complete wretchedness – that somehow we are not worthy of love – that we are not worthy to stand before God as our own Eucharistic Prayer B declares – “You have made us worthy to stand before you!”

What we don’t often realize is that the harsher verses of Psalm 51 were never meant to be an ontological statement about humanity – they were never meant to be seen as a doctrinal statement about human worth.  The psalm we recite every Ash Wednesday was meant as a personal confession of King David – whether he actually wrote it or not. 

David, having committed adultery and orchestrated the death of the woman’s husband, believes the death of their child is due to his grievous sin.  In sackcloth and ashes David confesses his guilt, saying what many of us have felt from time to time when we have blown it big-time.  We even make movies about it, don’t we?  Who among us hasn’t seen Jimmy Stewart in “It’s a Wonderful Life” – a story about a man who thinks the world, and everyone in it, would be better off if he had never been born?

There has to be a middle way, because those two options – it’s always somebody else, or it’s always me and I’m worthless – those two options will drive us crazy, drive others away from us, or simple drive us to the grave.

Author Jamie Sams, tells us that we must be “willing to acknowledge that we are spiritual beings who happen to have human bodies,” and that we are connected in some unknown way to the Great Mystery, who is God (Dancing the Dream: the Seven Sacred Paths of Human Transformation, a study of Native American Spirituality).  Ash Wednesday and Lent are meant, in part, to remind us that we are not God – thank goodness, that would be scary, wouldn’t it? (Although there certainly are some in this world who might think they are!)  The turning point on the first path of human transformation occurs when we sense that our lives have purpose – sense that we are here for a reason we may not yet fully understand.  That sense of purpose unfolds “when we finally turn and face the Creator, the Great Mystery, God, and acknowledge that our life cannot be lived fully without [being connected] to the Divine Presence that made all life” (ibid).

Theologian Walter Brueggemann suggests that the texts for today are a call for us “to be reconciled, to overcome [the] alienations [in our lives].”  He points out that the texts for Ash Wednesday as a whole are “buoyant and hope-filled. Psalm 51, the most familiar of all psalmic confessions,” he remarks, “does not grovel in guilt.  [Despite the wretchedness of verse 6,] by verse 10 it eagerly petitions for a new life and never doubts that God will give it.  The cluster of imperatives in [verses]10-12 anticipates God’s ready capacity for restoration and sustenance, and a new heart and spirit—in short, a life fully in sync with God’s good purposes” (Walter Brueggemann, Preaching the Word , Sojourners Online, 2/10/2016).

Brueggemann concludes, “The placement of Ash Wednesday as a pivot between Epiphany and Lent focuses our attention on reconciliation to God that empowers our reconciling work in the world. A Lenten people [are] not to hunker down in remorse or in self-preoccupation, but to approach the world where God has put us afresh, with the transformative work of [the] ‘new fast’” (ibid) [called for by God in Isaiah 58 which we just heard read – a new fast that proclaims] “the recovery of neighborliness alongside the oppressed, the hungry, the naked, and the homeless poor” (ibid).

The true prayer of Ash Wednesday and Lent is for God to “Create in [us] a clean heart…and renew a right spirit within [us],” to “open [our] lips…[that our mouths might proclaim God’s praise],” and then to live as a people forgiven, welcomed, and beloved of God – partners in reconciling the world for God. 

We can overcome the temptations to place the need for repentance and amendment of life solely at the feet of others, or seeing ourselves as shouldering all the blame, by focusing on God’s ability to renew us – by focusing on God’s ability to create a right spirit within us – if we can open ourselves to the healing, redeeming and transforming love of God.  And in doing so, realize that God is indeed a benevolent partner with us on the journey toward Easter.

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